Speed dating agenda
The following material was written for individuals trying to recover from a relationship that's had toxic consequences for them, and is not intended as a support resourse for Borderlines or anyone with BPD traits.
Ambivalence is too often the cause of unwanted and 'unplanned' pregnancies--but tragically, the financially responsible for these "accidents," men will continue to be brutalized by governing bodies that persistently ignore this travesty.
Furthermore, if we sanction a woman's "right to choose," how is it even remotely fair (ability to identify with another's feelings and needs) is extremely limited.
While it's the responsibility of female want to keep a guy around, knowing he doesn't want to be there?
Conception doesnt just happen, and with very few exceptions (such as rape) Ive always believed that if a woman is clear about not wanting to conceive or mother a child, she wont.
Think of it this way~ if she can walk away from her own child, how secure do you think to another.
I doubt that you'll believe me, but regardless of this connection you share, there's a very good chance she'll be saying the No reasonably sane woman will abandon her children, or expect you to leave yours!If she's leaving a marriage, that's one thing, but if she's leaving her kids behind, that's quite another.
Financially successful men are no way is this issue confined to specific socioeconomic status.If he musters the courage to express his genuine concerns and feelings, he risks being shamed with accusations of not loving his partner enoughseparate issues!Two wrongs don't make a right, and sharing a child with someone, can be a more lenient sentence than serving life with a woman you don't really want to be with, and cannot trust.The Borderline has a sixth sense about when you've got one foot out the door--and may use this sly tactic to keep you from moving toward a much needed dissolution of that relationship!Whether married or not, the choice to have a child should always be agreed upon by A borderline disordered female can be prone to having romantic liaisons with married or attached men.We need to end the “all must have prizes” culture and get children playing and enjoying competitive sports from a young age, linking them up with sports clubs so they can pursue their dreams.’ He said: ‘We will absolutely learn the lessons of the Australian experience,’ – referring to the fact that the country has slumped down the medal table since the Sydney Games of 2000 after funding cuts.