Seduction and dating
On hand are 32 dating coaches to share their top tips!
So if a girl asks what you do for work, reply with “I was put on this planet to find you, job done”. Your honesty will show you have a backbone and are fearless in the face of rejection.
A combination of tongue-and-cheek humour with self-depricating humour is a winning mix. If you don’t tell her you’re sexually interested, she’ll start to wonder why you’re talking to her in the first place.
When you find a girl you want to approach, always assess the situation first.
If she looks in a hurry or appears to be emotionably unavailable, respect her space. Practice on your highs and lows and accentuating words like you’re telling a story. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not to impress a girl.
Now it’s time to give you a step-by-step breakdown of the process for picking up a girl. In the time it takes to think up a clever pickup line, you’ll probably miss the golden opportunity to approach. An example of a situational opener (if it’s cold outside) would be saying something like “Where did you get that amazing coat? The aim of the opener is simply is simply to grab her attention. Start with “Excuse me” if you approach a girl in the daytime. You’ll be able to tell in a matter of seconds if your personalities click.
Whether you exchange phone numbers, go in for the kiss or take a girl home with you, ultimately depends on the situation.If you meet a girl at 8.50am in Starbucks on your morning commute to work, you’d settle for a quick number exchange.
If you don’t agree with what she says, challenge her. Think of something she wouldn’t normally expect a guy to acknowledge about her. So rather than say something generic like “You’re gorgeous” instead say, “You have a really nice smile” or “I like your nose piercing…it suits you…they don’t on most girls”.You’ll discover how to pick up girls in both the day and night time, with solutions to some of the most challenging situations you can imagine.We had a lot of fun putting this interview together and would like to thank everyone who got involved!Just like we all hate to be harassed by street sellers and charity collectors, observational awareness is important. By transferring over your positive emotions she’ll feel relaxed and enjoy the moment too. Slowww everything right dowwwn, speak up to get her attention, and don’t mumble. Women are perceptive creatures and will smell a ‘fake’ a mile away. Radiate the positive qualities you possess because self assurance is sexy. Telling a girl you’re a dolphin trainer by day and a black-belt Muay Thai fighter by night will inevitably have repercussions.If you interrupt someone in a fluster, don’t be surprised if you get face palmed. Women are primarily attracted to social power and confidence over everything. So if you can learn to handle this pressure, and brazenly approach women like it’s no biggy, you are 90% of the way over the finish line. And it’s not necessarily what you say, it’s more about your delivery. To open up your body language – smile, hold a wide stance, and turn your body to face her when talking. If you end up dating and realising she’s your dream girl, you’re gonna have to fess up… As confusing as gender roles appear to be in 2017, one thing with dating remains unchanged – it’s the man’s job to make the first move.Now that you have an easy to follow step-by-step method, it’s time to breakdown the 7 common situations you’re likely to encounter when picking up girls.