Dating book for men
Which is why it’s that the men I date are totally checked out on this front.
Rob doesn’t ride past my house to make sure no other cars are there, either.
I had a like, 3 year stint of dating basically only women in San Francisco, and not a lot of SF lesbians are super sold on the idea of kids (probably because SF is so expensive and because babies are not a byproduct of lesbian sex.)So, I was like, ah-ha! In a Guardian article, Laurie Penny concisely expressed some of my current frustrations: I’m consistently taken aback by the number of men my age and older who speak offhandedly about their “future children”, without having planned in the slightest for the arrival of these notional sprogs — simply assuming that it’ll happen someday, when they’ve had time to dedicate themselves to their life’s work.
Also, they understand that while we don’t often get our hair wet, we don’t smell like wet dog when we do. I’m STILL asking Dayquan to get his brush and du rag out my car, 8. Your Grandmother isn’t worried that Trent is going to steal her Sterling Silver gravy boat at Thanksgiving. Some of my Black brothers spend COUNTLESS hours on Twitter, dissecting mixtapes, albums, blogging, but have never said anything like “hard day in the office” or “my manager gets on my nerves”. Most white men have goals, and will let you know of those goals within the first 30 minutes of your conversation. They’ve all either dated or are MARRIED to BLACK WOMEN.
He’s also bringing over a bottle of wine for Auntie Tamika to add to the punch. White men aren’t bothered by my lack of restrictions in the bedroom. It is a bonding experience designed for pleasure and growth. Check out white twitter during 9-5…CRICKETS, People!!!! White men have no problem giving their women gifts.
So instead of me filling up your timeline with my thought, I took it to the blog. 10 Reasons I’m going to start dating White men: 10. Whether it’s weaved, pressed or naturally twisted, I’ve ALWAYS received compliments from the men of Caucasia.
I’m not saying that material things are important, but it’s MANY Black men out here that won’t loan their “Woman” $20 til her next payday because it’s be deemed as “tricking”. White men act like they have some good gotdamn sense. Ever got some head from a suburban boy with full lips and an appetite for days??? I do not constantly have to yell at Rob for coming home late because Rob respects me and is home in bed by 1.
Women are frequently more reciprocative, but men often seem me, by having nice shit, or looking good, or pulling in bank. I’ve dated a few guys who want kids, so I’ve devoted some time pondering what men who want kids need. But suggesting any position in the bedroom to a Black man leads to accusations of unfaithfulness and them questioning whether they have entered a relationship with a hoe. I’ve known this white dude for 4 days, and managed to get a bouquet of exotic flowers, an edible arrangement and a $200 date. A Black guy will buy you lingerie for Christmas and get mad when you’re not excited. I don’t have to nag Rob because he handles his business without me reminding him of his responsibilities. I don’t go through Rob’s phone or email because he’s never given me any reason to suspect something fishy may be going on. And, while those numbers are surely much more equal in the US today, I’m still guessing fewer men have kids than women.